You Don’t Have To Make It Right For Everyone
I’ve recently returned from a visit overseas to see friends and family. I was able to enjoy some quality time with my mother, brothers and one of my sisters. I didn’t get to see my elder sister due to scheduling issues and that’s OK. When we were growing up I was the quiet, shy one and wanted to make everyone happy. It took a long time for me to stop being the mediator and realise that I don’t have to make it right for everyone else.
You’ll never make it right for someone else. You can only do what sits comfortably with your values and beliefs and know that you aren’t responsible for everyone else’s happiness. You are only responsible for your life choices and no one else’s.
I’m now in a position where I can have a relationship with each family member even if they don’t have one with each other. My breakthrough came when I started learning Reiki and gained insights into myself and my approach to life. The aha moment was when I realised that in trying to mediate with everyone I wasn’t honouring my own needs. Once I let that go I was able to be more pragmatic and feel more at ease with myself. I was able to accept my siblings and parents decisions even if I didn’t agree with them and get on with my life.
Reiki can support you too in letting go of the need to fix everyone. Through learning Reiki for yourself you start the process of self-acceptance and letting go. My next workshop is in August where you’ll learn the simple and easy to use techniques to gently support you achieve this.
Click here for more information or call me on 0410 161 099 and start feeling safe honouring yourself.
Learn Reiki to release your blocks and recognise your self worth.
My next workshop will be in August 2018. Click here for more details.
“I enjoyed the opportunity to explore and experience Reiki energy and to be in a safe and supportive environment whilst experiencing it. The learning journey with a teacher who was intuitive, grounded and a joy to be with over the two days made the introduction to my Reiki journey joyful and heart-warming”, Victoria, Vermont.